Wednesday, August 5, 2009

"I Do" Outdoors?

Thinking about getting married outdoors? Sounds dreamy, doesn't it? Maybe. Maybe not. How flexible are you when it gets down to the 11th hour and your plans are "all wet?"

Over the years, I have played sooooo many wedding outdoors. Some were absolutely beautiful, some were a disaster. I'll give you some things to think about if you are thinking of saying "I Do" outside! First of all, is it Spring, Summer or Fall you want to tie the knot? Hopefully not Winter unless you are in south Florida. Keep in mind you will probably have on a long dress, more than normal makeup, maybe higher than normal heels, and possibly a veil as well. Think how you feel in your bathing suit in summer and add quite a few degrees. Fall can be roasty as well. Now think about Prince Charming. Will he be wearing the obligatory tuxedo? Black, no less? This can be twice as roasty as your dress! All this is fine as long as you know what to expect and can "handle the heat," as they say. Fainting as you go down the aisle is not something you want on film!

Keep in mind your elderly grandparents and parents as well. How will they fare in the heat? One option to consider is to have everyone stay inside until just before the attendants process in. That keeps grandma cool, and the other guests as well. It would be nice to have lemonade or water for them to sip on while they gather inside. Make sure you have a cover to stand under while you say your vows.....shade is nice.

Rain? Be prepared to have it inside at the last minute without being utterly destraught. I have seen a bride demand to be outside come rain or shine. She passed out umbrellas. Unfortunately, the chairs were soaked. The tuxes didn't look so great after the ceremony either, so no telling how much the rental store charged her upon their return. Needless to say, the hairdos weren't doing so well either. If it rains on your party, just pull it indoors and smile and keep going!!!

Happy Wedding Planning!!!

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